Second time mother wishing for an unmedicated vaginal birth

I first called Doula care Ireland when I was 33 weeks pregnant with my second baby. In my mind I was calling Doula Care Ireland because I wanted to have an unmedicated birth. Reflecting back I was so naïve, my Doula gave me so much more!

Ever since my first reading of Ina May Gaskin Guide to Childbirth it was a dream of mine to have the experience of a natural childbirth. I was completely gripped by stories of the labouring woman’s strength and power. What was paramount to these successful birth stories was a holistic support system offered by doulas and midwifes. 

Jen was my Doula, her wealth of knowledge was reassuring and exactly what I was looking for, although I didn’t know it at the time. She was always professional, respectful and compassionate towards me. When an induction was looming she gently steered me (not an easy job) to focus on the big picture of having a healthy safe birth. Jen educated and supported me to focus on the choices I had at every stage of my pregnancy. When I had any concerns during my pregnancy she was a fantastic resource to have access to. I felt her advice was reliable and always safe.  

I was excited when I started to have birthing waves while in hospital waiting for an induction to be arranged. I phoned Jen, her experience became evident again when after a few short questions she timed her arrival at the hospital perfectly much to my husband’s relief. She knew exactly what I needed to help me manage the birthing waves. We’d had a number of phone calls and meetings during the anti natal stage and because of this she was very much in tune with the birthing techniques I had practiced. She guided me to them when I lost focus and when self-doubt started to creep in. 

Jen worked perfectly with the midwifery staff. I feel honoured to have had such an educated skilful team of women guide my baby, safely and calmly into the world. I will be forever grateful for the birth experience me and my baby had. 

I would whole heartily recommend Doula Care Ireland and if I ever need a Doula again I will definitely be calling them before 33 weeks!

With much love and eternal gratitude,

Jane